- Aspirations and Goals
- Imagining their future selves
“[At 70] I’m dead.”
Participant:
- Greenville, MS
- Black
- female
- 15-22
- lower income
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“[At 70] I’m dead.”
“I put smart, funny, outgoing, cute, ditsy, and hardworking…[Ditsy] Yeah. I have my moments where I’m like oh, that’s not right. I’m still smart though; I just have my slow moments…[Hardworking] Because whenever I focus or whenever I want something, I have the tendency to focus on it and follow through with it. But when I’m not really caring about it, I do the exact opposite, but I do have the ability to be hardworking.”
“Then my boyfriend money-wise he is very supporting. If you go back to school, don’t worry I will help you. I will do this and this. He is very supporting…Whatever I need to make myself happy, he is very like whatever. If that is your goal and that is what you want to do, whatever you need just let me know. Basically, with anything if you need somebody, we will hire somebody to help you. Don’t worry, I will do whatever it takes. I kind of have that trust that he will support me in the whole process.”
“Positives about job: it’s a source of income. Positives about work: gives the feeling of trying to achieve a goal.”
“Being ‘unique.’ I was diagnosed with Asperger’s at age 4 and was relentlessly bullied for having it and being different.”
“Positives about job: pays you. Positives about work: your skill grows, becoming stronger in that area over time.”
“My mom. Her work makes her so happy. She is a sales rep and…She loves her job; she is so good at what she does. But I have gone to appointments with her and gone to trade shows with her; if I had to do her job, I would kill myself.”
“[At 45] I want to just like have my own house, a big RV and just travel with some friends. That’s about it. I just like driving; I like seeing new places. I like going to Utah, and I like talking and being away from electronics. I want to be retired. I am a mechanical engineer. [The important people in my life are] my wife, my family.”
“College will be on my mind! It’s far way yet really close.”
“I think to live you have to have connections and you have to know how to network. You need both of them because if you don’t have connections how are you going to get anywhere? You can get places, but you have to talk to people to get certain places…Like you can’t just start from nothing to get somewhere. You need to communicate or have a platform for something. For networking, you have to have somebody to show your platform like a display sign, so you have to communicate basically. That is the main thing that bonds those two words together.”